Lessons from the Your Turn Challenge

By Arturo de Frias Marques (Own work) [CC BY-SA 4.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0)], via Wikimedia Commons

I took on the Your Turn Challenge – a seven day blogging challenge inspired by Seth Godin and his book “What to do when it’s your turn” to get in the habit of blogging everyday, to get better and faster with blogging and connect with others.  I hoped the Your Turn Challenge will remind me to do my best without judging myself, to ship my work without worrying that it’s not good enough because it is my best work today.

Like Dorothy in the “Wizard of Oz” my mission was more important than the negative voices in my head. In the end, I willingly poured myself into the most generous, vulnerable work I’m capable of creating right now, in this moment. I put fear of not being good enough aside and hit publish everyday. Here are a few lessons I learned from the #yourturnchallenge experience:

+ Creating a system to blog everyday helps. I set a time limit and tried to reduce the amount spent on blogging each day. One day I did it in ten minutes! I also used free photos from wikimedia commons and copied and pasted the URLs instead of trying to size the photos myself.

+ Focusing my attention on the priority of blogging everyday is important to success.

+ Writing is a habit. Blogging is also a habit. Each habit has their own set of rules to follow.

+ Let go of perfection and embracing the mantra: “Done not perfect.”

+ Accept each blog post as my best work today. I can always go back and be inspired to write something new again.

+ Always log out of WordPress after you moderate a comment. This is to avoid something wacky like a spambot sending 52 emails to a person who commented on one of my posts. Sorry, T.

+ Do less. The goal was to publish a post everyday to MommyMusingsBlog.com and the your turn tumblr blog.

+ I can blog fearlessly everyday.

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Adios Granada Spain

Pilgrimage to Alhambra – Granada, Spain

Alhambra in Granada, Spain – Kristine Bruneau

Aside from fútbol, our visit to Granada, Spain would have been incomplete without touring the spectacular Alhambra. The Alhambra, I learned, is a vast complex of palaces and military fortresses built by Arabian royalty from the 9th through 14th century to establish the Kingdom of Granada. Walking along the corridors and pathways, in the footsteps of rulers from long ago, me and my fellow pilgrims were treated to a visual feast of artisan work or “fairy hands.” Hand-detailed mosaics, geometric tiles, and carved wooden inlays rolled into a series of patios, fountains, courts, and chambers, and made us stop in awe of it all. I think my family’s favorite part of the Alhambra was the Torre de la Vela (watchtower). There we saw one of the most beautiful panoramic views of the Sierra Nevada and city of Granada, including the Albayzin – a maze of narrow, winding streets that hail from Granada’s Medieval Moorish past.

Washington Irving statue. Granada, Spain – Kristine Bruneau

It’s said that Granada stole the heart of legendary author, Washington Irving. Irving was so enamored and inspired by the Alhambra, where he lived for several months in 1829 that he wrote “Tales of the Alhambra.” Part history, part legend, Irving lived in the middle of an Arabian tale where he cut himself off from every day life to drink in “proud-spirited, romantic Spain; where the old magnificent barbaric spirit still contends against the utilitarianism of modern civilization.” A tribute to Irving can be found along the emerald and stone path ascending to the Alhambra.

Sweet and Savory Streets

me maca and lara

To eat when we were hungry in Granada, we only had to follow our noses. Andalusian cuisine is influenced by the rural and coastal regions. Smells of fresh baked bread, empanadas, and other delicious pastries wafted from open bakery doors. At lunch time, which is around 3 pm, we could smell savory dishes since the Spaniards use lots of olive oil to cook with. Common dishes are fried fish, “pescaito frito.” cold soups like salmorejo, and a mixture of fried eggs, meats and potatoes. I loved Tapas. Whenever you order a wine or cerveza, you get Tapas, or small meals to share with your companions. And, I can’t ever forget about ham. Spanish love ham, especially the cured Serrano Ham. Ham was everywhere; which can make it tough for a vegetarian like me. So, what did I eat? It’s surprisingly easy to stick with a vegetarian diet and I snacked on the most delicious tasting olives I’ve ever eaten. However, I opted to fall off the wagon to sample what our Spanish hosts offered for meals (in moderation, of course). One night led the grown ups to a butcher shop named “Dame Jamon.” Translated it means: Give me ham! When in Spain, I think one should experience it all. Except the pulpo (octopus). I don’t do pulpo. Ah well!

In the Albayzin with a view of the Alhambra.

In the Albayzin with a view of the Alhambra.

Sierra Nevada – Granada, Spain
We drove up the winding roads to the Sierra Nevada. Our destination was to tour a professional sports training facility – best in class at 2300 meters.

Fútbol. Always Fútbol!

Team Granada

Team Granada

Aqui! Aqui! The words most often spoken during practice was acqui or here. I observed the Spaniards training to keep the ball, protect the ball, and put pressure on other players. Our boys had very good technical skills and were confident in their ability to play with other boys. Having self confidence seems to go hand-in-hand with keeping up with the intensity of the game. Above all else, the lesson is to have fun.

Malaga Club de Fútbol – Malaga Spain
Our two aspiring fútbol players flanked by their Spanish coaches Antonio and David (also American) and Malaga Club de Fútbol head of scout Adrian. Perhaps a good Omen?


We visited La Roseleda stadium in Malaga for a personal tour. Following that the boys practiced with Malaga’s youth academy team. We ended the evening watching a fútbol game between Malaga and Betis.

Street Fútbol or Pelada


Hanging out on the street. He's the real deal.

Hanging out on the street. He’s the real deal.

Our amigos were always patient and courteous, greeting us by either shaking hands, or kissing on both cheeks. And friends of our friends did the same. We were always greeted hello and said good-bye to when ready to leave. The Spaniards value politeness, and although they might walk right into you, they will apologize. I think most liked it when we attempted to speak Spanish even if it was limited.

Treasured Moments


James and Noah playing with Antonio and Maca’s son Nacho, who has special needs.


Drinking coffee on the terrace of our friends apartment was just one of the treasured moments I had in Granada. Words can only help tell pieces of the story of what I experienced in this Andalusian town.

Just as Granada stole Irving’s heart, Granada has stolen my heart. I have seen, felt, smelled, tasted, and touched this beautiful culture, rich with history. Adios Granada. I’ll be back.

Getting my country groove on with Keith Urban

Keith Urban in concertI got my country groove on last night with Keith Urban at Constellation Brands-Marvin Sands Performing Arts Center (CMAC). Except for all the cowboy hats and boots worn by fans, I wouldn’t have known I was at a country music concert. Yes, I went to see Keith Urban Friday night in Canandaigua with my country music sherpa Jo-Jo. And yes, moms, ladies, and gentleman, Keith Urban is gorgeous!

The four-time Grammy Award winner and American Idol judge took the stage with his trademark straightened and highlighted hair, sculpted and tattooed chest and arms, and tight jeans – it’s hard not to pay attention. He looks like a rock God, but he plays country music? Jo-Jo wisely pointed out that it’s not your “Hee-Haw” kind of music.

Since I’m not a follower of country music, I really had no idea who the opening acts were, but I remembered Little Big Town. Wow. The band’s cover of Fleetwood Mac’s “The Chain” was smokin’. But I came for Keith Urban and his “Light The Fuse Tour.” Up close or far away, he’s not only cute, but can sing falsetto hooks and shred a guitar. He plays with tremendous energy and his excitement is infectious. From his own stuff to a cover of The Who’s “Won’t Get Fooled Again” I was in awe.

Urban loves his audience to the point of reading aloud hand-made signs by fans who had hoped to get a hug, or perhaps dance on stage. One teen fan got her wish when Urban read her sign: “Put me in a song.” He invited her on the stage and before he sang to her, he asked where she was from. She replied, “Canada.” The audience, which was an interesting blend of young and senior-folk, booed. Incredulous, Urban who’s Australian, turned to us and said something like: chill out, she speaks English.

Up until last night, I knew only two of his songs – “Kiss the Girl” and “A Little Bit of Everything,” but it didn’t matter. I found myself grooving to all of his radio-friendly beats by the end of the two-hour set. A turning point was when he stood five seats from me on a table, singing and playing. He was so close, I could have touched him. In the end, Jo-Jo got it right. Urban lit our fuse and together we got our country groove on. (Click here to see the video snippet.)

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